Peer Pressure

Peer pressure can be difficult for a child. A peer group is usually made up of individuals of approximately the same age and interests and teens look to peer groups to set rules for correct social behaviour. Many behave in ways the group approves of in order to feel they belong.

Positive Peer Pressure

• Being pushed into something positive that you didn't have the courage to do
• When your friends convince you not to do something because it wasn't in your best interest
• When you get pushed into something you didn't want to do but it turned out well for you.

• Helps overcome fear
• Motivation and confidence
• Socializing and getting good advice

Will avoid:

• Breaking the law
• Getting into trouble with parents
• Health problems
  

Negative peer pressure

• Being talked into doing something wrong or against the law. Wanting to be accepted by peers is usually the cause

Consequences of negative peer pressure usually leads to:

• Drugs
• Alcohol
• Smoking
• Bullying
• Fighting
• Causes trouble with the law
• Heathl problems
  
• Causes low self-esteem from trying too hard to fit in
  

Ways to deal with peer pressure:

• Self-confidence is the key!
• Be yourself.
• Listen to you inner feelings.
• Learn to say NO!
• Leave.
• Ignore.
• Choose your friends wisely.
• Stay away from peers who pressure you to do stuff you know is wrong.
• Be with people who feel the same way as you do.
• If the situation seems too dangerous, ask for help.
• Help a friend who is resisting peer pressure.